When we broke off the conversation he had to sleep cuz he had basketball on the morning and it was getting late, he said he would talk to me tmr, I said okay goodnight, talk to u tmr. We text or message each other every day, usually multiple times throughout the day. its also so hard because he is the other guys friend but he hates him just like i do but iam wondering does he really like me beacuse he is a fuqboi idk, Hi Bjork, Anyways, what do u think? He will never really know where he stands until you tell him how you feel about him. Do you want to find out if he's texting other women behind your back? Im just wondering if he love me back. Claudia. Good luck! He is hot then cold Like when he tweeted I miss the girl who made me laugh so hard I spit out my drink.. He answered me that he guessed that he likes me but this kind of thing takes time for him. Also, I was the last one to say something to him and he read the message and has not responded in three days should I message him again or leave it alone? What is healthy vs. potentially problematic social media use? Like I said, focus on yourself and try to meet other guys. For the past 6 months he has been posting on his wall things that I like (which he knows either from my previous pictures on fb or things that I say to the group on whatsapp) The thing is that everytime I ask the group on whatsapp if anyone wants to go somewhere or do anything he never says anything. Should I just give up even trying to be his friend? What should I do? Try to help her out when you can (setting the table, making the salad, etc.) I think it sounds very promising! Claudia. Please help! We have been talking for over 4 months nonstop, we both iniciate the conversations and say good night every night. Claudia. Bisous, That inflation is creating a treacherous gulch between the housing haves and have-nots. I dont think its a bad idea to bring up the subject with your boyfriend its strange that shes texting him at 2am and always around. If you havent heard of Relationship Hero before, its a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations. Im always asking him If he love me and he said GOD is in control. Big hugs xo hello! He usually reacts to your stories and he would even slide into your DMs when you post a selfie. Claudia. Good luck! He doesnt know how to tell you he likes you explicitly. But I was the last one to end the conversation and always first one to start . He thinks of a punchline for everything you say. Claudia, Hey Claudia, Overview. He doesnt have a girlfriend right now, but unfortunately he had some toxic relationship in the past year with a girl who still has a boyfriend. xo Claudia. Learn more about French Seduction Made Easy. You could either: Claudia. The morning messages, videos, and the kind of voice notes he sends you should help you tell. If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to a relationship coach. I would casually bring up activities and places you will be during the weekend, or at night, and see if he shows up. So no, I dont think you were seeing flirting when it wasnt there. His sexy selfies have increased since meeting you. Most of the places you spend your time online like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram . There are chances that if he's that into you and he listens to your concerns, he will start texting you via alternative mediums. Snapchat is fun no doubt, a lot of people like its sneakiness. We stayed friend but not talking as like before. Btw I have two groups of friends one in class and one outside class. Hi there, -Kate, Hi Kate, When I first met him it seemed to me that he was interested in me. Can you help? If you catch him staring at you a lot, then I would say he is interested in youto get the conversation started again I would send him something you know he is interested in or that you know he would find funny and then ask him a question. I hope everything works out OK for you. There are many reasons why a man may choose to only Snapchat and not send text messages; some of them are innocent, but some of them are seedy. In this case, you! Claudia, Hi Claudia Cox, But you used to be such an expert at reading their body language but then the pandemic happened. So my question is do you think he likes me and would eventually ask me out or should I make a move being that I scared him away at first by saying I dont need a boyfriend initially and do you think he might actually have someone Cuz he makes funny comments on some other girls pictures too. Snapchat habits are very telling of his character. then ill lose him forever. Social media apps like Snapchat are fun to use and they have enticing features to keep the flame burning. About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Policy & Safety How YouTube works Test new features NFL Sunday Ticket Press Copyright . Asking you which ones you like goes to show that he just values your input. A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. Fast forward to now, recently his friends have been saying hi to me. Claudia. And we make a weird eye contact then we both look the other way. Maybe the songs capture how he feels for you. It really hampers my daily works as I have to prepare for job preparations nowadays. Use this tool to check whether he actually is who he says he isWhether you're married or have just started seeing someone, infidelity rates are on the rise and have increased over 40% in the last 20 years, so you have all the right to be worried. Be patient there are tons of great guys out there! Thanks, Hi Tasha, Hi Amanda, Maybe he is shy and looking for a way to spend time with you without taking the risk of asking you out (the risk of you saying no). There is no label at the moment. I recently reconnected with someone I used to be friends with a couple of years back after not having spoken for a while. It sounds like he likes you, but he is shy and scared of being rejected. I was dating this guy for a month or so. We met for 30 min and gave me the tickets but didnt have enough so he suggest he will drop for me since he ran out of tickets another day. At first, it doesnt seem like a sign at all, I mean it could be purely coincidence right? Claudia. He also uses emojis in each message. Hi Jill, Claudia. We all did a bonfire with my brother his girlfriend her older brother his wife another couple and me and the guy I like. I have listed 15 reasons why Snapchat is his medium of choice, below. Whats wronged with him actually lol i really dont understand, Hi Seera, As I said, Snapchat is a millennial app, so most of its users are twenty-five and below. Or is he traveling a lot with the band? Keep doing what you are doing respond to his messages when he texts you, get to know him slowly and take your time. Ever since you both met, theres suddenly a rise of his selfies on his Instagram feed or his stories. Compliment me whenever i do something to my hair / post selfies/ wear something nice to his gigs. If he only communicates with you through this app, he only views you as a short-term part of his life. I'm finding the whole shapchat thing a little immature (he is 30) If he liked me would he not want to actually talk to me or at least text me? It sounds like he is on the move (and shy by the sound of your story). I did always reply to his Instagram story but he wouldnt see my message. If you pretend like everything is cool, it wont be awkward. I see one major red flag hes already in a relationship. Tell him where you will be this weekend and see if he jumps at the opportunity to hang out. However, I see him in game in mornings, no hello in my inbox or anything..so to me hes not into me or surely I would be on his mind ? Or is it always in a group of people? They will come to your DMs and tell you all kinds of things. *Sorry Claudia for the previous message. It sounds like he might be interested. If you keep messaging him you might come off as desperate. He asks me things like what does my dad think about him. Its like the counterpart of always being wherever you are in real life. Or maybe sometimes he jokes about you falling for him. Last week it was Suckered by The Jonas Brothers. Chan School of Public Health, discusses a new study he co-authored on associations between social media use and mental health and well-being. He was messaging me all the time telling how great and hot I am, and sending kisses all the time. Bisous If you can, try and spend some time with him one on one, he may feel more comfortable opening up if its just the two of you. Hi Jamie, He usually will make facial expressions toward my direction usually responding to what our teacher has said (especially in second period where he sometimes moves across the room so hes across from me) Im also not sure if hes looking at me or the girl in front of me. Thus, we just went for dinner instead. If you really like him, just be patient. 7 years ago Why does he only contact me on social media?? Hi N, Its hard to know whats going through his mind. Claudia. Don't judge a texter by the medium or app he chooses to text you with. I just had an idea. Hey CJ, Its probably just all fun and games. I was blown away by how kind, empathetic, and genuinely helpful my coach was. When we first met, he didnt go directly to me and talk to me. One day, I asked his crushs name. And so, I decided to have a Space from now on because of what i feel right now. Is your boyfriend ignoring your texts? Bisous x Will this not go further other than what it has? You might be thinking, but I send those messages to people all the time! Yes, but youre a girl. do you think he likes me,like on a scale of 1 to 10 ? School starts and we didnt have much interaction which is normal because we didnt have any to begin with. These three friends all said hi to me just me but my crush was on the far end and didnt say anything. It's not just some random dog meme. I said sure since we have a lot of common friends and decided to meet him in public place. Hi Alin, From what you have said it seems that his relationship with your friend is definitely over, so if you like him, then get on a video call with him and see how it goes is he flirty? Sending tons of positive energy your way I felt like I was being annoying texting my crush, so I asked him if im being annoyingor if Im fine and he said Im fine. Claudia, Hi Claudia Theres a bunch of other nice things he did.. but. If I don't hear from him or I get excuses I will certainly move on. You told him that you like photography and you find him sharing film shots on his timeline frequently since then. Hes never been to a school dance before and I brought it up that I havent either and was probably not until next year because I dont really think you should date if you cant drive yourself ( Im about to get drivers license in summer) therefore will rely on somebody else. As we get to know each other better only for 2 months. Unlike you, guys dont just chat with anyone. I would also like to know what dos this means when he add all my girl friends at his friend list after I unfriended him on Facebook. Kayleigh McEnany, national press secretary for former President Donald Trump. He has told me before he has no experience with relationships. Also because of the age difference if he didnt want to talk to me, he wouldnt. Bisous x I would message him to try and understand the situation better. Does he think you have a bf? I would continue to avoid him, and if you do see him, just keep telling him that you already have a boyfriend. I asked him if he love me back and he said I sent messages every time for you it wasnt enough? Hes never said I was cute or anything, but hes used words like Im a cool person to be around. Its been three days since he read my message on snapchat. Bisous, But I want peace in my life and also if he rejects me i dont know , i can still be his friend or not, Hi Mavish, Have you given him any signs that you are interested in him? Btw he always replies me within 1-5 minutes. He told me that he was telling me things that he never told anyone and felt a real connection. Claudia. Claudia, Hey Claudia l met a guy on dating sites .we click so well we ended up talking about our goals and how we want our marriage life to be we havent met ..we live in different countries.but we have been planning to meet in the next few months.he seems to busy during work days and normal chats with me at night ..he texts long massage and all his chats end up with l love you,you my wife,my queen etc..one day l tryed to be open to him and asked him for an advice about a family issue ..how l should deal with it .he seemed busy and replyedat work now babes ,will think this through then will get back to you at night after work, okay luv.that night he didnt replied ..later found out he blocked me.what does that mean, Hi Pia, Facebook. Hi Sandra, at this time i always needed to start conversations and then i stopped talking to him i knew he didnt like me anymore and he had changed he wasnt the sweet kind funny guy and started to be a fyqboi.well then his friend sent me hi and started talking to me at his time the other guy didnt like me and i cried and loved him so much,well his friend is so sweet now and cute and actually cares about me i think? He sends me his pictures but he never asks for mine.. I would just ignore this guy and move on. I have been in a similar situation (texting a guy I never met in person all the time) so I know how exciting and fun it can bebut if you want to find out if this guy could be the guy for you, you need to meet him in person. Your notifications are filled with him liking your posts. Despite being in constant communication with people, I had never been more alone. Claudia, Hey Claudia! 2023 ZIFF DAVIS CANADA, INC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. But he keeps ignoring some of my messages, he send me pics of his everyday, tell me about his day at work and about what he is planning for his job, but when I share something about me with him, he wouldnt comment anything and just ignore even when I send a picture of myself or so, he would only comment unless I ask him to. People in general are programmed to answer questions, and guys are usually happy to help, so either option should get the conversation going. Im not even sure what to do about this if anything? Claudia. If you are feeling confident, try to slide into his DMs and get a conversation started. Don't let yourself get swayed into thinking you've secured a man you're chatting with on Snapchat; especially when you're seeing another woman on his status. So I kinda like this guy and hes pretty cute but Im not sure if he likes me. I dont know if he is serious or not. This guy I like has a girl friend, but he seems less interested in her and he randomly starts conversations with me and I catch him staring at me a lot in class. I started liking him, he heard the rumour, we dont talk much now either on Instagram or personally which we used to do a lot before that rumour thingy, but he stares at me a lot across halls, what does this mean? Claudia. In fact, hes already acting like a boyfriend by making you a part of his everyday life. Guys often chat with many different girls. There is a guy who tells me he loves me a lot and i like him but the problem is hes younger than me. Please email me if I can help. Maybe he is just shy in person and feels more comfortable writing to you. My brother made smores for him and he asked me to try it. Are there any other guys that interest you? Thanks Claudia. We both dont send filters and I feel like I can talk to him about anything. I would just play it cool and see what happens next. Good luck! I am not upset shes in his life I get that completely. You can argue with me until Im blue in the face, but its true. St. Andrew Kim. Just be vigilant and careful. I have listed 15 reasons why Snapchat is his medium of choice, below. Just imagine how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and he was chatting with other girls After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track. He wants to know what you think about him. He has been ignoring me since Jan 21st and I dont think he likes me, but other people saying he probably does. Hello Claudia! We were in same class for last 5 years. Hi Pam, Im trying to give him signals that I do like him, but I dont know if Im doing it right. Its now Summer and we decided to hang out just the two of us. We just started really talking on snapchat, its started we were just sending photos of our faces. Bisous It is so nice to hear from you! The consistency in his messages tells it all. He probably had a good time with you, and thinks you are a nice person, but it seems to me that he is not interested in taking it any further (probably due to the distance). Words are cheap, he can say he loves you and wants to marry you, but you should look closely at his actions. He offered me to play a game at his house too? Does he somehow still have plenty of time to go on Facebook and talk with others? He spends his day waiting for his phone to light up with your notification, and it gets him excited every time it happens. Now our graduation day will be coming in Jan 2018.Though it 5 years but we talked very little only One of the key signs a guy likes you is if you log onto your Facebook to see that hes shared something on your wall that actually interests you. Sometimes, people switch communication modes because they are not serious about you. I always catch him looking at me and we always have this weird eye connections all the time. People often talk about how Apple's ecosystem is designed in such a way that makes it hard to leave, and iMessage may be the most perfect example of that. He actually continued to hold eye contact and I would eventually blush and look away. After the dance ended and people had gone home, he texted me and asked if I had taken a picture of myself and to send it to him since I didnt have any in my camera roll when he asked in our previous conversation. Its really nice to hear from you! Ltd. We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. He likes and comments on some of my pics and even responds to my stories. From what you said, I think he is interested in you. I most definitely need your advice. If so, this is a tantalizing clue that hes done his personal development homework and knows that asking questions is a GREAT way to keep the conversation flowing and find out more about you. Pearl Nash I once found myself in the same situation as you are. If he keeps bailing on meeting up, hes probably not sure about what he wants (a Penpal or a real life relationship). Hi claudia,this is going to be a long story but plsss readd, So I met this guy on my instadm and he sent me a msg first,i replied his msg and *bamm* we got along very perfectly, noticed we had a lot of things in common and we couldnt go a day without chatting with each other, after our plenty chats on instadm we moved and started chatting on WhatsApp and I can say he spends most of his time chatting with me, he goes to work 9-5 but makes sure he texts me every morning before going to work and message me in between working hours,he cant go a day without talking to me, but what I dont understand is he refers to me as his best friend, and I normally say stuffs like I dont need a boyfriend and all to him, guessing I probably scared him away with that and he even told me one time he if he wanted to ask me out, he would have and promised he wont, this guy involves me in everything that has to do with him,he trusts and tell me things about him that he has never told anyone before(not even his mum)he plans his future with me and even asks me for opinions based on his next move and he follows what i tell him,we talk about our goals together,he also tells me well travel round the world together and if he has a girlfriend who doesnt like me as his best friend, hes gonna dump her for me and stuff, but truth is I likeeee or rather love this guy and our chemistry is so strong that he calls me the female version of him, we havent met each other physically tho because of his job and all but we intend meeting soon, plus Im always scared he might not likee when we see physically cuz Im plussized so i normally give excuses not to see him when he speaks about it too although he has seen few of my full pics on IG tho and liked it buh I feel I may appear bigger in real life.Ive spoken once to his sister on the phone too so guessing hes told his sister about me. Every time as ask Him if He Loves me He says It will happen over time. I would agree to going out to dinner with him and the small group, and then after dinner suggest having a birthday drink just the two of you (maybe you can tell him that you have a birthday surprise for him and you want to give it to him after dinner you could get him something small related to biking, such as a book with the best bike tours in your area, a new water bottle, etc.). Bisous When I opened the message I noticed there was a previous message he send me back in August 2015 after seeing me at youth event and decided to message me saying that he liked me and was interested to get to know me in person. Hey Youre the person hes talking about. And then when you said you like burritos, hes suddenly sharing different Mexican recipes on his timeline. Pearl Nash has years of experience writing relationship articles for single females looking for love. 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